Dating men like overweight women what people think of online dating

07-Aug-2014 19:37

She says she has always like me as in wanted to date but never brought it up as she only thought I could only see her as her brothers little sister.We have made plans to go out and see where it takes off to but kinda has me wondering why she likes me so much.From what Ive come to understand by the post of many of the ladies here in the forums......despite connection in conversation, you'd do yourself a real favor by approaching this as just a friend...even just business seeing as she wants pictures taken. Her previous bf was a larger fella also I believe around 300lbs so it is obvious that she is into the larger fella side of things. So you give a little information about yourself to give us a clearer picture as to who you are. I have seen this man naked numerous times as I assist him with his showering. We converse about four times a week and can discuss anything because we trust each other. With obesity come's health issues and with a family of my own to take into consideration dating him would not even come into the equasion. I think you also answered your own question with the info on her ex. So they take medication which leads to more medication to control side effects from the medication they are taking and then more medication to control the side affects that are causing more side affects from the new medication that caused side effects....so it goes on.Its hard to imagine 375 until its blocking the sun....there is no vibe/spark.... You lack confidence and I was trying to give u tough love. He is not rich, in fact I have helped him out occassionally with a bit of shopping for his need's. By the way, it's good that she likes you for who you are, but have you considered losing weight for health reasons? Exercise programs are not usually encouraged to be undertaken by people who are obese and are on medication, so life is bloody tough for them.

The guy im dating right now is tall and thin, he doesnt like thin girls because of the "bone issue", he says it hurts...loves my belly flap, hip rolls, and big thighs..called a preference...

I have only ever dated 1 man who would be considered thin in my entire life.

I tend to gravitate to larger men, and not just in height.

She is a gorgeous women and has a very athletic type body and I am pushing 375lbs.

She could probably have any guy she wants between her looks and her personality.

The guy im dating right now is tall and thin, he doesnt like thin girls because of the "bone issue", he says it hurts...loves my belly flap, hip rolls, and big thighs..called a preference...

I have only ever dated 1 man who would be considered thin in my entire life.

I tend to gravitate to larger men, and not just in height.

She is a gorgeous women and has a very athletic type body and I am pushing 375lbs.

She could probably have any guy she wants between her looks and her personality.

If it bothers you that you are over weight, then so something about it. You said something about her liking your photos, could be a way of you taking pics of her for free...don't know...that's why I said be careful. I am not charging her for the photos she is signing a modle release so I can use the photos for advertising purposes when I do get my photography side business up and running.